Advising NOT counselling!(We have many boring,underqualified freaks at our school for that)

Uhmm, I won't really blame you if you aren't MUCH appealed by the title, but I really couldn't think of a better one! I was really bored sitting all blah on my favourite white chair, pictuarising my possible afterlife, when a friend called reporting her Rakhi Sawant-ish break up with her long time boyfriend, of whom she apparently isn't over yet. Listening to her "He's such a mean asshole", "How could he be SO insensitive when I gave him every bit of world's happiness" etc wasn't easy to be honest. Especially after knowing quite well the psychological torture the poor bloke must've been subjected to by her :/ He did gave her several passive hints, which EVERYONE practically EVERYONE understood except for the main heroin of the story herself, implying that he had enough of her "commitment" & better than James Bond spying skills which ruined his Barney Stinson-ic charms!

But chewing a bit on this matter & connecting it with various cases of different backgrounds, I concluded that it's yet again another human (uhmm..female) mentality to continue trailing behind a person, we like, SO much that we almost seem like a crazy stalker for whom our crush/boyfriend is the ONLY reason for us inhaling oxygen. Despite knowing quite as well as you the the latest much hyped promiser of the U.S that your guy is highly bugged by you & can do anything to avoid talking to you, your heart will explain/lie/console or do anything & everything in this world to make your "else-in-it's-right mind" brains understand that what you're thinking is a plain misperception and is 'coz of over-excessively thinking about him & it's rather his unalterable quite nature that he does not open much with you (even if you see him hooligan-ning around 24X7 with all his OTHER friends). Heart *sigh* does everything deliberately only to bleed in the end & be the victim of your 'highly ignored' brains "I -Told-You-So" looks when your guy's outburst is felt in his silence & avoidance..& the pain *sigh again* the highly internally contagious pain which seems like one of a kind and gets itself classified as an "Ineffaceable stigma" (& all those BIG-BIG melodrama expressing words).You soon lose your apetite, sleep , experience senescence in smile and everything that makes an observer ask," Hey dude anything wrong kya?". But statistics clearly indicate that we girls tend to gradually let all his memories diminish provided that that person becomes lesser the focus of our retina.









But then like everything else there are exceptions where heart, even in it's most dilapitated state manages to overtake the function of memory part of our brain & keeps reminding you of all those (one-sided) "beautiful" times. You start losing intrest in everything for a jerk for whom YOU were NOTHING!



But just as everyone is aware of the "female sentiments" we all know very well about something called "Male ego".. YES that is their weakness ! So pounce on it & crunch it so much that it becomes ineligible even for a muncipality junkyard. I suggest an amazing personality makeover & and laying your back a bit..... treat him just a tad worse than air. But even after all this nothing works,, remember there are more than 65,000 different hodgepodge of Hot guys you can lay your hands on =P =P

eerrrr.....!!!

I know this shouldnt be the time when I (nor any of my "shared -bonders" of CBSE torture )should be getting bored or tired or anything, but the thing is: TO WHAT EXTENT CAN AN AVERAGE 15-16 AGE GROUP "KIDS"[(quoting the old folks adjective..coz no use since no matter how "biggies" or "ahuh-now-iam-mature"chores{n i dun mean that}u do..they still call u a KID)] CAN STUDY and most importantly endure the humongeous presseure of even more humongeaous expectations of their parents, teachers, tution teachers, relatives...n to add more neighbours ...etc!!! Though people say that parents have become more liberal and open minded in terms of letting their kids resort for their own choices, more than 75% of teens choices are suppresed by their "ever-so-experienced" and over-ambitious parents. And incase there is any kid(I mean in real sense!) out there (especially from an Indian family and MORE ESPECIALLy from a large relative background) thinking that since his/her parents have supported their decisions right from the beginning and will always do it in future, then I'd like to disclose those utopian inhabitants a scary truth: you will, invariably, encounter a day when, despite getting stamped as an Archaelogist, RJ etc by God Himself, your parents would force you in more "reputable" streams like Medicine/Engineering.
But to force UR decision on them, yu must remember the three R's i.e rebel,revolt...& relaaaxx, 'caz ultimately its ur choice and determination that will prevail!!!=)

Islam and Terrorism ISNT the same thing!

Ohk I know many people would disagree with the title, if not in a public discussion, then somewhere deep inside their heart. I know that still, upto this date, despite many "unity among communities" etc propogandas, several people think that Islam is terrorism personified. And those people who think that way are, I am sorry, bigtime dunderheads. Just like blaming Gandhiji's ideology if one of his disciple would had turned in to a traitor would be the most prepostorous thing and a primary sign of indiffernce to GK, in the same way accusing the whole community, to be preaching non-violence, just because an influencing minority group indulges itself in it, God knowz for what, would be unfair to all the innocent members of that
community, who just like others wanna live a normal life but, in many places, are not able to do so because of the people's perspective about their belief. I am not here to prove my beliefs superior over someone else's, but to make a request to those people who do not know much about Islam, to not to make a small group a basis of judgement on any one's faith.


Without any offence i'd like you people to ponder over something:: No one says that, "Hey u know that CRISHTIAN president George Bush who is responsible for more than several wars and the entire destruction of Iraq", or no one says, "Those Chrishtains fixed some junkyard called Israel in the middle of palestine ". No one calls what isreals are doing as terrorist activities, even though they've caused quadrapault damage of what "Al-Qaeda"or others have done, just coz they've got THE american support. THEN WHY ONLY MUSLIMS??!!I can give several and several instances of people who got arrested without any trials just because they were muslims & had names like Jaffariddin etc, therefore accused of directly or indirectly being linked to Osama bin laden. Now what do u call them huh??!!precautious smartypants??!!!! Just as much I respect other communties, I am equally sensitive about any one making baseless comments on my faith just coz some their great-grand father had told them something. Islam is the religion of peace,just like others....and no one, even if the whole population turns against it, this fact wouldn't change. & Kindly remember that terrorism is not the subordinate of any community, but is a whole different community dedicated to weapons & violence.

An Unintended Friendship

Thinking of him in my solitude still transports me back to the day,i.e 1 year back,when me and my cousin had made a silly random plan,out of boredom,to bug any guy from her class.After the"reviewal"of as many "woo-woo" guys as possible(some were boo-boo as well)we decided to make this guy our target,without being aware of the consequences....without being aware of the new phase of friendship i was about to encounter.

She'd asked me to use my fake id to add him,via which i used to send cranky mails to my friends and cousins whenever i was bored,in short,which i did quite frequently.

Initially I thought he wound'nt even accept my friend request,but he getting so convival in such short span of time,despite me being at my outmost best bugging state,was well ,kinda surprising.I called him"ma romeo"gave him all sorts of pansy nicknames etc only to realize later that between all this nutty chatter I'd not only shared half my problems,ideas and laughters with a stranger,but also a great rapport.Eventually I added him on my real id and chucked this whole "romeo-juliet"buisness.It was then that he told me that the reason why he didnt react to me bugging him was that firstly he,himself,did such stuffs on a regular basis with his neighbour classmates and secondly that i was anyway failing at my job,because whatever i said was pretty lame(which i then felt was quite mean!!)

Months passed and one fine day we decided to meet.After lots of planning and(replanning)bluffing to my parents about the importance of my next combine studies and all,we met at a local coffee cafe.I was very well aware of his charismatic personality and crack sense of humour,but what i didnt know were his marvellously huge mischievous eyes,which could set me into palpitations if looked directly for more than 20 secs.I spent like about 3-4 wonderful hours with this tall,tanned & lean guy,who after this was always present in all the seasons of my life.I still dont know whether or not he feels the same way about me as I do,i.e the bestest guy-buddy,but i wouldnt care even if he considers me a silly girl.

ouch g2g!!ive had enough of his "ONLINE BUZZES"

(P.S:in response to some of my friends:this is just a fictious story,relating not to me,neither my friends nor my relatives)

ma first blog

Honestly speaking i dunno what iam doing here..!!especially at a time when iam suppose to be concentrating on my upcoming boardexams .I ,infact,didnt even know what blogging was all about until my social teacher used blogging as an example to explain us the improvements in the technology of expressing our ideas via net.I was busy drawing all sorts of weird faces outta boredom ,showing not even an iota of intrest in the topic,until one of my classmates,anshika sigh,informed us that there is a debate goin on in the media whether or not should the bloggers be given the status of journalists and that bloggers are having an upper hand in it....!!to become a journalist,i thought,i would go to any length!and it was only then that i started my research on bloggin etc,because i knew i would be able to show my true journalism skills,if i have some,ONLY through this,"thanks" to the society and family i was born in.As for now i have no topic to write on..but hopefully it wouldnt take long to come up with one.I hope i make full use of this opportunity,the only opportunity i have .I promise i wont dissapoint the next time i post anything.
buh-bye<3